Anitra St. Hilaire

Executive Career Advisor

Helping women executives thrive in work and in life by being themselves.

Welcome!

My name is Anitra St. Hilaire. I’m so glad you’re here.

I am a career coach and a champion of non traditional leaders. My mission is to help women executives find power - not weakness - in their natural tendencies and innate strengths.

I believe that many bright and incredible women get lost along their career journey by a system that treats us poorly, tries to mold or change us, and tells us repeatedly - even as we achieve greatly - that we are not good enough.

I also believe in the value of diversity in leadership styles, strengths, and tendencies. For anyone who has ever been told they don’t fit the mold of a traditional leader, you are in fact crucial to building the kind of work environments that help others thrive.

This is why I work to help women executives thrive in work and in life by being themselves. 

Here’s a little bit about me and how I got here:

As a people strategist, I believe that every issue is a people issue. And when we foster the space, understanding, and appreciation for our people to own their natural strengths and innate qualities, we create working environments that are more fulfilling and equitable for all.

This is important for everyone - but especially for women leaders. From an early age, we tell girls which traits will help them succeed, and that leaders can only look and act in a certain way. In the end, working women often lose sight of who they truly are, or burn out from trying to change. 

This is what I am working to change. After a long career earning my way into new environments, learning to adapt and succeed by burying my true self, I found that I lost sight of my own strengths and ambitions.

From finance to consulting, and then building a career in Human Resources across several startups, I often shied away from leadership roles because I had come to believe I didn’t look, sound, or behave like a leader. I can see now that my ability to adapt helped me survive and move forward, but over time, masking my natural tendencies became painful - and it stunted my progress. 

Eventually, I came to appreciate that I am a different type of leader - and that the world needs leaders of all kinds. 

I made it my mission to help other executive women reclaim their own strengths so they can be more confident and effective as they move toward what they want. 

Because when authentic, self-aware women take the lead, they foster a more equitable and fulfilling professional environment for all.

how I work

  • Our journey is about breaking free from the masks, discovering your genuine essence, and leading with a spirit that's authentically yours. It's not just about being real; it's about embracing and celebrating your unique story and style as your greatest leadership strength.

  • We're not just coaches; we're your cheerleaders, strategists, and confidants rolled into one. Our commitment is to lift you higher, pushing boundaries and unlocking doors so your leadership journey is successful and genuinely transformative.

  • We're crafting a community where deep, meaningful relationships are the cornerstone of growth. It's about creating lasting bonds, where every interaction enriches your journey and amplifies your impact.

  • We blend intellect, compassion, and action, guiding every decision with wisdom, emotional depth, and a commitment to meaningful impact. Our leadership is defined by thoughtful analysis, heartfelt understanding, and the courage to act decisively. We ensure our actions align with our values and positively influence our community.

  • We encourage a mindset where questions lead to discoveries, and discoveries lead to breakthroughs. It's about fostering a love for learning that keeps you evolving, pushing the limits of what's possible, and always staying ahead of the curve.

Articles and Podcasts

Unlock Your Authentic Leadership.

Transform Your Influence and Impact.

Authentopia is a play on “Authentic” and “Utopia.” It represents your future, where you get to show up every day as who you truly are in your ideal way.

This is where executive women awaken their true power and lead with authenticity in a corporate world that awaits their unique voices. Whether through personalized coaching or inspirational speaking engagements, discover how to unlock your full potential and lead with confidence and authenticity. Work with me and step into the future of leadership.